STOP.  Stop wishing your life was different and make it different.  You are the only person who can change your life.  You are the only person who can change your self.  You have to take action.  "If nothing changes, nothing changes" means that for things to change, YOU must change them. If you hate your job, find a new one. If you hate your living situation, get a new one.  If you hate your car, sell it or trade it.  If you want more money, stop spending every penny you make on shit you don't need.  The problem is, that you have to TAKE ACTION.  Your new life is not going to fall out of the sky.  YOU ARE THE BOSS OF YOUR LIFE. If you are not going to take action, then your life will stay the same. Can't figure out what action to take?  Google that shit. The answer is out there.

(this was for me as much as it was for you. have a nice day)